If
you think something you are doing is a sin, turn your eyes away from it,
and turn them toward Jesus. If you are not sure, turn your eyes on Jesus.
If you are sure what you are doing is not a sin, turn your eyes toward
Jesus anyway! It has much greater benefit than just turning away from
sin.
Put your attention on Jesus who is very real and spiritually present. Draw near to Him, and He will draw near to you. He
will generously give you wisdom from above, and perfect peace. These are
literally promises from the Bible to believers who affix their inner attention
onto Jesus.
Although
it is not AS important to know what what you are turning from, it is vital
to identify and admit the sins in your life as you turn from them.
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It always helps to turn away from the temptation to sin and instead affix your inner thoughts and emotions on Jesus. This can be done without letting a sense of guilt or shame hinder you. There is nothing wrong with feeling remorse or sorrow about yourself, especially when it leads you to turn to Jesus. Ask for forgiveness, and then receive it with faith, agreeing with God's pronouncement of forgiveness.
What
does it mean to sin? To sin, used as a verb, is a word that has lost its
meaning from the original-language. In the New Testament it literally
means to be off-target, like when an archer is aiming for a bull’s
eye and shoots a stray arrow off to the side.The
picture of an archer missing a target implies someone who might want to
shoot straight but doesn’t. That
implication is a clue to how we should picture God. In His wisdom and
love for us at times when we struggle with sin, He calls it missing the
target. He knows us better than we know ourselves. He can see the good
He designed into us even when we can't.
Our
sins might be either unintentional mistakes or intentional misdeeds that
we somehow mentally justify. They could even be intentional wickedness
from our heart out of an evil motivation. God
is never surprised or shocked by any of our sins. He has seen it all many
millions of times.
When a believer turns from one or more sin, God's stance is to forgive the believer, forgive the sins, and cleanse the believer from the sins. The
blanket prayer, "I turn from all my sins to You, Lord" is not
as effective as, "Lord, I turn from my sin of hatred against my boss,
and I ask You for forgiveness and the power to stop thinking those angry
thoughts." Confess your sins directly to God with specificity and
remorse, and then watch God work beauty into your life as a result. God
does not ask you or me to do the impossible by cleaning ourselves up.
Of course, it helps for us to cooperate with Him as He cleans us up. He
wants to help believers hit “bulls-eyes” in the targets of
life.
What
good has sin ever done for this planet? Most of the humanity's problems
can be traced back to people sinning.
There
are little sins and big sins, but none of them are good sins. It is a
promise to believers that Jesus will forgive our sins. He not only took
our death on Himself, He took all our sins on Himself. Jesus
carried our sins to the cross, so we would not have to carry them into
heaven. Sins on earth do not stop people from entering Heaven. But the
sins and our temptation to sin will not accompany us.
There
is no tipping point on the scale of sin. There is no amount of good works
that earn your entrance to Heaven, and there is no amount of sins that
can disqualify you from entering. Jesus decrees that someone who believes in Him as Savior qualifies, regardless of how unforgivable others think the sins are.
One
mistake people make is to look at God as if He is a strict parent, unwilling
to accept them until they become better people. Nothing could be farther
from the truth. God uses His power in love, not parental control. He is really much more powerful than any parent
and has no desire to punish His children who love Him. At the same time, a parent who loves their child, will correct the child purely out of love. The child rarely enjoys this. The Bible says ''Those God loves, he also chastens''. This is not pleasant, but is even better than even good and loving human parents do.
In our
natural strength, we cannot become free of sin. With His strength, we
are given power to humble ourselves, confess our sins to God, and step
away from them.
There
is an old word for turning away from sin and turning toward God. That
word is to “repent”. The noun form is "repentance".
We still use these words today among believers because they are easier
to say than "turning away from sin and turning toward God.''
In biblical terms, Jesus' message was ''Repent for the kingdom of God is at hand (or in your midst) ". Repentance is a must, but not a condition for earning your salvation. Believing in Jesus is the only condition to accepting the free gift of salvation. The process of getting to that point of belief might involve some inner work. It is merely the work that overcomes our resistance to receiving the free gift. Jesus' message began with recommending that preliminary action.
Just
by believing in Jesus as your Savior, you are repenting from not believing
in Him as your Savior. This is a profound concept. Stop and think about
that for a moment. Read it again if you need to - Believing
in Jesus is not only an act of faith, but is also an automatic simultaneous
act of repentance.
You don't need to do anything more than have faith.
When you have faith in Jesus, repentance from unbelief in Jesus occurs. Faith is a secret weapon against sin.
Repentance also has many other benefits to a believer and to everyone else. People
often bemoan the state of today’s society. If we want things to
get better in this world, we must take seriously that sin is a major cause
of the world’s ills - also that repentance from sin is the most
direct prevention and cure for those ills. I have found
the more I turn my attention away from sinning and turn toward Jesus,
the smoother my life works out. It seems like heaven is breaking into
my life, and is close to my heart. I recommend repentance to everyone.
It is good for you.
Whether
you harbor unbelief intentionally or inadvertantly, the absense of believing
in Jesus indicates you are missing the target. It is therefore, sin by
the definition we have provided. It does not take a genious to realize
that unbelief is by far the most dangerous sin on the planet. It is the
sin that unchecked leads away from heaven.
Repenting
from disbelief opens the door to being saved by Jesus. Once we believe,
God will carry us through the rest of the journey. When
we love Jesus, we tend to become repeat-repenters, rather than repeat-offenders.
This is because of our love and thankfulness toward Him.
Some
people miss going to heaven because they get confused between the two
concepts: “Jesus doesn’t like people to sin”, and “Jesus
doesn’t like people who sin”. Jesus
definitely likes people who sin. Sin will never stop Jesus from liking
you, even if you hate Him. Human parents might withhold their love from
children as a punishment for misbehaving. God never does that. I don’t
know why we project this human trait onto God.
When
we say, “Jesus doesn’t like people to sin”, it is more
like saying that a mother doesn’t like her baby to get hurt. The
baby might be naively pursuing fun that is dangerous to self or others.
In fact, it is normal for a mother to let her child know with a sense
of anger not to do those things. The
mother might appear to be mean in the child's eyes, but it was done out
of love.
We hear
too much about God being angry over our sins. His anger is different than
human anger. More often that not, He is angry with a sin, not with the person. A person is not made up of sins. In fact, it is believing a lie to think any person's identity is based on their sins.
Human anger can have some sin mixed into it. God's anger does
not. Instread, it has pure love mixed in. If it feels like God is angry with
any believer, that feeling can go away the very moment they turn to Him for help, and stop acting
rebellious toward Him. There is no need to feel anything but love from Him and for Him when that happens.
God
knows that sin is pleasant for a while. But it eventually damages either
us, or other people He loves, or both. He is being kind to people by not
liking them to sin. To sin
is to produce a self-made setback. It means turning down God’s best
for us and refusing His help to make our lives more wonderful.
Before
a person first decides to believe in Jesus as their Savior, there are
likely some things they need to turn away from. This is just to get to
a general sincerity in wanting to be saved, knowing that God will both
forgive their sins and help them overcome sin's power in daily life.
So, yes, it is important to turn away from sins that impede turning to Jesus. In fact, it is in your best interest to do this as soon as possible, because they are the most dangerous to you. Overcoming these types of sin is not as difficult to do as one would think. It is very simple to look at your own motives to see what evokes hesitancy to turn to
Jesus. All these attitudes, when revealed by the light, tend to lose their
power.
The
picture I have painted about sin, is the same picture Jesus, and all the New Testament
writers want you to see. However, I have presented it in a fairly soft
and compassionate way. The Bible sometimes paints the picture in more stark terms, warning
us of the seriousness and consequences of sin. The two approaches do not
contradict one another. The reason I have chosen my way of teaching about
this is to counter the false understandings prevalent in the world. People give God a "bad rap" which
tends to turn others away from God's love, not toward Him as both a faithful
friend and a forgiving, trusted Lord.
Being
saved by Jesus is not a religious thing. It is high above all religions
and religious matters. It is wise to separate it in our minds completely
from religion. Turning from sin to be close to Jesus is also a completely
non-religious thing. It is a personal thing. Religious people teach wrongly
that to sin is to transgress and offend God's laws. You might find this
in a dictionary definition. But Jesus supercedes dictionaries. The
world and all its strict religions define sin and sinning in a very slanted
and narrow way.
To sin
can be reflected in mild or serious misbehavior, but it is one of the
things that people do naturally. It means they incline toward being contrary,
both morally and ethically. They are immature, and unrounded. They have
a lot to learn. But those who sin can learn many things they don't currently
know. They can learn that sinning is harmful to them and others, whether
they are able to identify that harm or not.
Once
a person is saved, and maturing in the process of loving Jesus, they can
learn that turning to Him before, during, or after sinning can be a very
rewarding experience. This may seem impossible to someone who does not
yet know Jesus, but it is true. We never need to hide our face from Him.
It doesn't work anyway; He sees and understands everything.
If as
a growing Christian you turn to Jesus when you sense the intention to
sin, it breaks the power of sin and prevents you from doing what you might
later regret. If you turn to Him while you are sinning, it can make a
lasting impression. The jolt of viewing truth in light can be a spiritual
intervention that turns your life around in positive ways. Turning to
Jesus after sinning helps you experientially receive forgiveness and cleansing
from unrighteousness.
God
is worthy to be trusted, even when we think He is taking our favorite
things or sins away from us. I can attest that He will replace them with
something better if we keep trusting Him.
If you
are "conflicted" about the decision to follow Jesus because
you don't want to give up a sinful lifestyle, don't worry. Pray for God’s
help to shine His light into you and help you uncover the obstacles, so
you make the right decision to follow Jesus. God is very wise, much moreso
than we are. He knows how to make your life better. Pray
that God would grant you the ability to make a conscious choice to prefer
Jesus over these conflicted attitudes, and help you take a humble child-like
stance toward Him.
God
exudes the desire that His children will have well-being, contentment,
and peace in their long, happy lives. All this takes place in the context
of a loving relationship with Him by faith, that naturally leads to greater
and greater victory over the sins in our lives.
Rather
than point fingers at people who sin, which never works, we should shine
the light of Jesus, and pray that they will come to Him and stop adding
to the world's ills. The
more we experience God’s love, the less we want to be unloving to
others. The more we comprehend what Jesus did for us, the less appealing
it becomes to "miss the target" in everyday life.
There's
no need to beat yourself up if you find yourself making the same mistakes
again and again. In fact, it is counter productive to beat yourself up
at all. Eventually, each of us learns from experience. Repentance is an ongoing thing we need to do. We need to do it for our health and happiness, not our hurt.
In case
you are tempted to think, “I’ll just wait until I stop sinning
to become saved”, you should know that never works. We might
never stop sinning entirely as long as we are on this earth, even if we
ARE saved. Conciousness of sins does not make you a bad person. God can
use your consciousness of sins to make you a better person.
God
helps believers overcome their sins. His help
in this way does not reduce their happiness in life, but rather sets them
free from sin’s power over them - free from bondage, guilt, and shame.
He knows what He is doing. We are all in process. When you exercise faith
with pure and positive intentions in any situation, it guards you from sinning.
Jesus
knew that we would need the support of one another. That is why he chose twelve disciples, and somtime sent them out two by two. I had
a teacher who mixed metaphors by saying "A lone wolf is like a sitting
duck." We need each other as believers. There is "strength in
numbers". Jesus said if two or more are gathered in His name, He
is there in the midst of them.
It is
common to want to avoid turning to Jesus when struggling with sin. I have gotten
confused and for a time avoided Him out of fear - fear that He'll take
my pet sin away, fear that He has a scolding look on His face, fear that
I will have to fight the peer pressure influencing me to sin, etc. But those fears were never justified.
Fears
are extremely common and devastatingly deceptive to deprive us of true
happiness. They are lies. To overcome them, we need to stop thinking about
our fears for a minute. Then we can turn our focus on to Jesus, and obtain
power from Him. The apostle John in promised that if we confess our sins,
God would forgive us our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
God promised that if we ask from wisdom from above, He will always generously
fulfill the request.
God's promises have power and light, whereas sin is based on lies. God's presence has power. Focusing
on Him has power. Sometimes
sin-issues make us blind to the love and mercy of Jesus. If even the most
horrendous sinners only knew a tiny fraction of God's love, they would
adore God and put intense focus on Him. He is our eternal friend and improves
our lives as we trust Him to do so.
I have
seen some of the worst of sinners become the most joyful and effective believers when Jesus
gets through with them. They become people with intense gratitude for
being rescued from their old lives and brought into better lives that
they never dreamed were available to them. That gratitude focuses on Jesus
as the one we are thankful to and the One we are thankful for.
Jesus died for the
worst sins imaginable and the least sins as well. Repentance should be considered in the same way. We would be wise to repent of every sin, whether we consider it small or large. If God ranks based on how much it hurts us or others with whom our
lives intersect, we should too. Many people today are not sensitive to how much their actions hurt others or themselves. It is a dullness of conscience that only leads to harm.
Our
society, with good intentions, tends to call some sins very bad, others
mild, and still others nothing more than "issues" that
are socially acceptable. The danger in doing this is that in reality God, not society,
determines the magnitude of a sin. In my lifetime I have seen western society gradually move away from acknowledging sin for what it is. Instead they now often base the acceptability of a practice on how much it veers from or conform to a modern societal norm.
It
is dangerous to let a sin mentally prompt you to distance yourself from Jesus. Perhaps to choose that separation
is a more serious sin than the one causing a desire to hide from God. Rather than turn away after we sin, we could easily turn to Jesus and save ourselves a lot of
self-caused heartache.
Even
if a sin has a tendency to separate us from Jesus experientially, He never
leaves us. Jesus died to remove that separation, and it is the power of
His death and resurrection, applied to us that reconciles us to God.
Repentance
seems to work best when we appreciate the seriousness of our misdeeds.
There is no such thing as a sin that is too shameful
for God to forgive. Nor is there a sin that is too horrendous that we
should not release the thought and memory of it to God. Dwelling obsessively on past sins never builds us up. When
we put the problem of our sins in His hands, it lifts a burden within
us that cannot disappear any other way.
There
is never a reason to hide our faces from Jesus. He wants to have us close
to Him in loving relationship. When we are, His power makes it just as
if we had never sinned. We can
return to Jesus innumerable times after falling or sinning, and He never
gets fed up. He keeps wiping away the power of sin from our hearts so
we can commune with Him once again in a love relationship.
The
apostle Paul said we are saved by grace, through faith, and that not of
ourselves; it is the gift of God. Grace is God's undeserved love for each
of us. We don't deserve it, we don't merit His favor, but He gives us
salvation anyway. He lets us off "Scott free". The Bible says,
"as far as the east is from the west, so distantly has He removed
our sins from us."
Sometimes
the word "sin" is used as a noun, meaning a condition of having
a tendency to sin. That meaning applies to everyone, and we should not
be in denial of it. We are all "sinners", in that sense. In ourselves,
we fall short of God's best for us. In this physical life, it is good
to adopt the saying, "He who thinks he stands, take heed lest he
fall." We will
always be susceptible in this lifetime to sin. That is why we should focus
on Jesus even when we aren't sinning. When we do that, we are protected in a mighty
fortress as Martin Luther's hymn declared.
There
is another hymn that says "Turn your eyes upon Jesus. Look full in
His wonderful face. And the things of earth will grow strangely dim in
the light of His glory and grace.
God
answers prayer, and I have prayed many times that God would by His power
reduce my sinful self-promptings and increase my righteousness. As you
see Him answer that prayer, you will find it is healthier to stop focusing
on sin itself in an attempt to get it out of your life.
Instead,
each of us should focus on growing in faith, doing good, listening for
God's presence and voice to lead us each day, bringing the Kingdom of
God to earth, helping the poor, healing the sick, comforting the broken,
and leading people to salvation. Those are activities Jesus wants us to
do with our lives. I have
found, that if we focus on Jesus and do these activities, it will be rewarding
and fun. We won't have the time or inclination to sin as we used to.
When
I was a new believer, still in public high school, my literature teacher
had the class read many works, one of which was the sermon, "Sinners
in the Hands of an Angry God" from 1741. Jonathan Edwards prefered
the approach that it is best to frighten people into repentance. I found
this to be my favorite of all the works I was assigned to read. It was
exhilerating and motivational. If you are up to it, I encourage you to
read it. Either the longer original sermon or an abbreviated version will
help you see his approach.
These versions are available through any search
engine. They were written in 1741 grammar and vocabulary, so you might
want to keep a dictionary handy. You can see how far the style of presenting
the good news has come since then. I'm sure Jonathan Edwards won more
people to eternal life than I have, so who am I to criticize his style if it
was right for him? It might also be the right approach for certain people who would suffer great harm if they didn't think about the seriousness of their predicament.
The
apostle Peter wrote, "The Lord is not slack concerning His promise,
as some count slackness, but is longsuffering toward us, not willing that
any should perish but that all should come to repentance." In context,
the promise was that Jesus will someday return for a fully grown body of believers.
Peter reminded us it is a promise, and God keeps His promises. But He is
patient to the point of suffering as He watches it take place over time.
God is NOT WILLING that any should go to Hell, but that all should come
to repentance and go to heaven. God will put up with any amount of suffering
to get every last person to turn away from their sins, turn to Him, and enter
His kingdom of love. Going to Hell is against God's will, so be quick to do God's will for your life: Let Him save you and you will see Heaven.
If all
the gentle reasoning I presented above concerning repentance does not
work, then maybe Edwards' famous sermon will. When I first read it, it
made me feel SO happy that I had already received Jesus as my Lord and
Savior! I still do.
 


  


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